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The problem with counting 123 c ounting 123 to get kids to listen is a popular strategy especially among parents of young children. We simply desire the survival of the mother at the end of this long journey. I just finished this book and it has some great tips on parenting. Heres the video youll want to use to get the dads involved. If you get to three then the consequence comes into play. This reinforces that it is the action of the child that is earning counts. Its 123 magic winner of the national parenting publications gold award and with over 875,000 copies sold, the 123 magic program is a step by step guide on effective discipline for kids aged 212.
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All i have to say is that the ideas in this book really work. Its 1 2 3 magic winner of the national parenting publications gold award and with over 875,000 copies sold, the 1 2 3 magic program is a step by step guide on effective discipline for kids aged 2 12. I highly recommend buying the book and then reading these notes. This method, which is commonly referred to as applied behavioral analysis aba, can include multiple approaches to allow you to discover the one that works best for your child. This awardwinning, bestselling book in a new edition, is now even easier to use with an updated internal design that is. Learn how your silence speaks louder than your words.
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